When one gets involved with a female, when is it OK to tell them you are still a virgin because of your shyness and moral values? Should you even mention it? I am satisfied with my virginity until that special female comes along, I do not know how they may think about me when they find out about my purity. Am I too concerned about this? I think this situation is harder on males because the media portrays the “normal” male as being sexually very experienced.