We can not control how others feel about us or how we feel about them. When seeking connections with others that we all yearn for, it is important to recognize that not everyone will feel the same way toward us as we feel toward them.
Most people are indifferent towards each other. It is OK that not everyone is attracted to you.
Shy people are often attracted to those who do not return the affection which is a very painful way of creating safety.
Real mutual love and affection is a gift from the universe and can not be controlled or manipulated.
Cartoons created for shyandfree.com by David H Bailey © 1998