Volunteer First! in order to overcome fear of public speaking
How to overcome the fear of public speaking? The answer is to volunteer first even though fear tells you to wait until the last possible moment or to avoid it a...
Category: Ways that Transform Shyness
How to use the Ways that Transform Shyness
With the knowledge of the Principles that Transform Shyness, insight learned by following a Process of Understanding Shyness, and the wisdom gained from the Sec...
List of Ways that Transform Shyness
The following is a list of ways that transform shyness. Always have something meaningful to say. Keep a Journal. Date, Date, Date with many people you may not b...
Always have something meaningful to say (small talk and beyond.)
Ever at a loss for words? Ever envy those with the gift of gab? Maybe learning to talk endlessly about anything is not for you, however, having a few meaningfu...
Communicate with impact to move a relationship forward
Feel invisible, that no one notices you? Do you sometimes observe couples and think “Why did they pick that person, they are not even nice to them?”...
Move from wrong to right action
Only someone who is shy understands the agony, regret, and self-hate lived with daily. At times the pain seems overwhelming and unending. Other times, a glimmer...
Date, date, date with many people you may not be interested in
“How can I date when I can’t get a date?” you may be wondering. What if there where ways for you to date while you were getting more comfortable wit...
Keep a journal
How many times have you resolved with all your strength to do something about your shyness, that nothing would stop you! — Then, looking back at the end o...
Publicly declare what you truly want
This picture was painted and given to me by my friend Najat. The art hung in my home for many years. To me it is both beautiful and sad. I was attracted to the ...
Life After Shyness
Many people who were once ruled by their shyness, learn how to ask for what they want, handle social situations, handle rejection, and accept themselves —...